Comments on: Good Days

By: Laura

Laura — Thu, 25 Mar 2010 09:04:23 +0000

We’ll still love you, even when you’re not feeling normal
But in all seriousness, I’m glad you’re having some days like these to counterbalance the others *hug*
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By: Toni

Toni — Thu, 25 Mar 2010 00:02:52 +0000

I agree with what tootertotz said. It really depends a lot on who you’re talking to and if you can be bothered go into the ins and outs of it all. I hope you have someone you can talk to when it’s bad — and people who can make you laugh when you need it.
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By: Veronica

Veronica — Wed, 24 Mar 2010 22:44:55 +0000

Calm days are good

By: Fiona

Fiona — Wed, 24 Mar 2010 20:25:00 +0000

I had a little girl yesterday say to me “there should have been 7 in our family, but the first sister died as a baby” very matter of factly when telling me all about her family.

They also have a cat that eats your cereal if you get up from the breakfast table.

I love kids.
.-= Fiona´s last blog ..Paint it White =-.

By: Tootertotz

Tootertotz — Wed, 24 Mar 2010 16:19:42 +0000

I completely know what you mean about having good and bad days and answering questions with that rather than a definition of the day you are having. It is easier.

For me, it also depended on the person asking how open I was to even addressing whether or not I was in a good or bad moment. Actually, I wasn’t out and about to interact much after my loss and didn’t answer the phone unless it was a good moment. That avoided some of the awkwardness.

You are feeling and responding how you feel you need to. That is all you can do. Keep it going! And I hope that the good moments are outnumbering the bad before too long. It’ll happen when it happens.

Take it easy on yourself and do whatever you need to get through.