Comments on: I’ve had this post sitting in my browser for three days now while I try and come up with a title. I am now admitting defeat, and you get this stupidly long title that is going to screw with my formatting. http://notanothermummyblog.com.au/2010/06/06/ive-had-this-post-sitting-in-my-browser-for-three-days-now-while-i-try-and-come-up-with-a-title-i-am-now-admitting-defeat-and-you-get-this-stupidly-long-title-that-is-going-to-screw-with-my-format/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=ive-had-this-post-sitting-in-my-browser-for-three-days-now-while-i-try-and-come-up-with-a-title-i-am-now-admitting-defeat-and-you-get-this-stupidly-long-title-that-is-going-to-screw-with-my-format Because the internet needed another sleep deprived woman writing diatribes about poop. Sun, 01 Jan 2012 12:03:32 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 By: Veronica http://notanothermummyblog.com.au/2010/06/06/ive-had-this-post-sitting-in-my-browser-for-three-days-now-while-i-try-and-come-up-with-a-title-i-am-now-admitting-defeat-and-you-get-this-stupidly-long-title-that-is-going-to-screw-with-my-format/comment-page-1/#comment-516 Veronica Tue, 13 Jul 2010 03:49:25 +0000 http://notanothermummyblog.com.au/?p=386#comment-516 I can't comment on your most recent post, the permalink gives me a 502 bad gateway error. (No idea what that is). I think losing a child, it defines a new normal for people. And this is just me, looking in from the outside, not having gone through that heartbreak. And I think a new normal is okay and it takes a while to be able to smile about things and not have them be bittersweet, because YES, you should have been buying purple clothes in 00 and you should be showing us all gorgeous photos of your rolling over daughter. That's what should have happened and it didn't and it's shit. So if you don't post about Connor walking (YAY!) that's okay, because it's a bittersweet milestone. And really, I've got no idea if I'm helping, commenting on the wrong post and everything. Feel free to tell me to shut up if I've said something wrong too. Thinking of you, often. I can’t comment on your most recent post, the permalink gives me a 502 bad gateway error. (No idea what that is).

I think losing a child, it defines a new normal for people. And this is just me, looking in from the outside, not having gone through that heartbreak. And I think a new normal is okay and it takes a while to be able to smile about things and not have them be bittersweet, because YES, you should have been buying purple clothes in 00 and you should be showing us all gorgeous photos of your rolling over daughter. That’s what should have happened and it didn’t and it’s shit.

So if you don’t post about Connor walking (YAY!) that’s okay, because it’s a bittersweet milestone.

And really, I’ve got no idea if I’m helping, commenting on the wrong post and everything. Feel free to tell me to shut up if I’ve said something wrong too.

Thinking of you, often.

]]> By: sweetsalty kate http://notanothermummyblog.com.au/2010/06/06/ive-had-this-post-sitting-in-my-browser-for-three-days-now-while-i-try-and-come-up-with-a-title-i-am-now-admitting-defeat-and-you-get-this-stupidly-long-title-that-is-going-to-screw-with-my-format/comment-page-1/#comment-508 sweetsalty kate Tue, 22 Jun 2010 13:14:39 +0000 http://notanothermummyblog.com.au/?p=386#comment-508 Hi Fern - it's so cool that you found the right fit. I've heard that makes all the difference. Hey, would you mind shooting me an email? Just wanted to connect. Thanks! Kate .-= sweetsalty kate´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.sweetsalty.com/sweetsalty/2010/6/16/resurrection-his-and-mine.html" rel="nofollow">resurrection, his and mine</a> =-. Hi Fern – it’s so cool that you found the right fit. I’ve heard that makes all the difference.

Hey, would you mind shooting me an email? Just wanted to connect. Thanks!
Kate
.-= sweetsalty kate´s last blog ..resurrection, his and mine =-.

]]> By: PlanningQueen http://notanothermummyblog.com.au/2010/06/06/ive-had-this-post-sitting-in-my-browser-for-three-days-now-while-i-try-and-come-up-with-a-title-i-am-now-admitting-defeat-and-you-get-this-stupidly-long-title-that-is-going-to-screw-with-my-format/comment-page-1/#comment-500 PlanningQueen Sun, 13 Jun 2010 12:05:35 +0000 http://notanothermummyblog.com.au/?p=386#comment-500 Glad it went well Fern. Hope you are going okay. I can only imagine what sort of up and down emotional ride you must be on. .-= PlanningQueen´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/PlanningWithKids/~3/Q3KNHvjv4HE/" rel="nofollow">Tips For Visiting The Art Gallery With Kids</a> =-. Glad it went well Fern. Hope you are going okay. I can only imagine what sort of up and down emotional ride you must be on.
.-= PlanningQueen´s last blog ..Tips For Visiting The Art Gallery With Kids =-.

]]> By: Kati http://notanothermummyblog.com.au/2010/06/06/ive-had-this-post-sitting-in-my-browser-for-three-days-now-while-i-try-and-come-up-with-a-title-i-am-now-admitting-defeat-and-you-get-this-stupidly-long-title-that-is-going-to-screw-with-my-format/comment-page-1/#comment-490 Kati Wed, 09 Jun 2010 01:48:30 +0000 http://notanothermummyblog.com.au/?p=386#comment-490 I am so glad that it went so well! I hope that this continues to be a good thing for you! :) I am so glad that it went so well! I hope that this continues to be a good thing for you! :)

]]> By: Wanderlust http://notanothermummyblog.com.au/2010/06/06/ive-had-this-post-sitting-in-my-browser-for-three-days-now-while-i-try-and-come-up-with-a-title-i-am-now-admitting-defeat-and-you-get-this-stupidly-long-title-that-is-going-to-screw-with-my-format/comment-page-1/#comment-487 Wanderlust Mon, 07 Jun 2010 19:29:34 +0000 http://notanothermummyblog.com.au/?p=386#comment-487 I'm glad you have someone to talk to that can help ease the burden. .-= Wanderlust´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/blogspot/ZZbW/~3/7V9ZuYY8f-c/truths-we-can-and-cannot-bear.html" rel="nofollow">The truths we can and cannot bear</a> =-. I’m glad you have someone to talk to that can help ease the burden.
.-= Wanderlust´s last blog ..The truths we can and cannot bear =-.

]]> By: WarsawMommy http://notanothermummyblog.com.au/2010/06/06/ive-had-this-post-sitting-in-my-browser-for-three-days-now-while-i-try-and-come-up-with-a-title-i-am-now-admitting-defeat-and-you-get-this-stupidly-long-title-that-is-going-to-screw-with-my-format/comment-page-1/#comment-486 WarsawMommy Mon, 07 Jun 2010 12:48:02 +0000 http://notanothermummyblog.com.au/?p=386#comment-486 He sounds wonderful. I am so happy you found him. .-= WarsawMommy´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.warsawmommy.com/?p=1214" rel="nofollow">I Am Picking Flowers For My Mom, Dammit</a> =-. He sounds wonderful.

I am so happy you found him.
.-= WarsawMommy´s last blog ..I Am Picking Flowers For My Mom, Dammit =-.

]]> By: Kelley @ Magnetoboldtoo http://notanothermummyblog.com.au/2010/06/06/ive-had-this-post-sitting-in-my-browser-for-three-days-now-while-i-try-and-come-up-with-a-title-i-am-now-admitting-defeat-and-you-get-this-stupidly-long-title-that-is-going-to-screw-with-my-format/comment-page-1/#comment-485 Kelley @ Magnetoboldtoo Mon, 07 Jun 2010 11:05:52 +0000 http://notanothermummyblog.com.au/?p=386#comment-485 It is amazing isn't it? Nothing like what you think. I am so happy that you have found a good one. .-= Kelley @ Magnetoboldtoo´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/MagnetoBoldToo/~3/d6s56gB5xI8/" rel="nofollow">Movie night</a> =-. It is amazing isn’t it? Nothing like what you think.

I am so happy that you have found a good one.
.-= Kelley @ Magnetoboldtoo´s last blog ..Movie night =-.

]]> By: Laura http://notanothermummyblog.com.au/2010/06/06/ive-had-this-post-sitting-in-my-browser-for-three-days-now-while-i-try-and-come-up-with-a-title-i-am-now-admitting-defeat-and-you-get-this-stupidly-long-title-that-is-going-to-screw-with-my-format/comment-page-1/#comment-484 Laura Sun, 06 Jun 2010 09:49:38 +0000 http://notanothermummyblog.com.au/?p=386#comment-484 *hug* so glad that it went well, he really does sound like the perfect guy to help you out atm :) .-= Laura´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LRKane/~3/eALg1BKYwTA/xxxii" rel="nofollow">XXXII</a> =-. *hug* so glad that it went well, he really does sound like the perfect guy to help you out atm :)
.-= Laura´s last blog ..XXXII =-.

]]> By: charm http://notanothermummyblog.com.au/2010/06/06/ive-had-this-post-sitting-in-my-browser-for-three-days-now-while-i-try-and-come-up-with-a-title-i-am-now-admitting-defeat-and-you-get-this-stupidly-long-title-that-is-going-to-screw-with-my-format/comment-page-1/#comment-483 charm Sun, 06 Jun 2010 09:40:25 +0000 http://notanothermummyblog.com.au/?p=386#comment-483 i had my fingers crossed that you would find a therapist that you could gel with... nothing worse than going in and feeling like you're not able to be totally frank about whats going on in your head! ((hugs)) so proud of you! .-= charm´s last blog ..<a href="http://imnotcharming.wordpress.com/2009/05/13/omg-its-may-already/" rel="nofollow">OMG! Its May already!</a> =-. i had my fingers crossed that you would find a therapist that you could gel with… nothing worse than going in and feeling like you’re not able to be totally frank about whats going on in your head!

((hugs)) so proud of you!
.-= charm´s last blog ..OMG! Its May already! =-.

]]> By: Heather http://notanothermummyblog.com.au/2010/06/06/ive-had-this-post-sitting-in-my-browser-for-three-days-now-while-i-try-and-come-up-with-a-title-i-am-now-admitting-defeat-and-you-get-this-stupidly-long-title-that-is-going-to-screw-with-my-format/comment-page-1/#comment-482 Heather Sun, 06 Jun 2010 09:16:49 +0000 http://notanothermummyblog.com.au/?p=386#comment-482 I'm so happy for you Fern. And even if you didn't do it months ago at least you didn't wait until months from now to do it xx I’m so happy for you Fern. And even if you didn’t do it months ago at least you didn’t wait until months from now to do it xx

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